Family Resources

    Caring for a loved one is one of the most meaningful things you will ever do. These resources are here to support you every step of the way.

    Skills Every Family Caregiver Should Know

    Whether you are providing care yourself or supervising a caregiver, these skills can make a real difference in your loved one's safety and quality of life.

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    CPR & First Aid Certification

    Knowing CPR and basic first aid could save your loved one's life in an emergency. Classes are available online and in person across California - many are free or low cost.

    • American Red Cross classes available in person and online
    • Courses typically take 2–4 hours
    Find a CPR Class Near You →
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    Understanding Dementia & Alzheimer's

    Caring for someone with dementia requires patience, flexibility, and specific skills. The Alzheimer's Association offers free training and resources for families navigating memory care.

    • Free online courses available
    • 24/7 Helpline: 1-800-272-3900
    Alzheimer's Association Family Resources →
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    Safe Transfers & Mobility Assistance

    Improper transfers are one of the most common causes of injury for both caregivers and their loved ones. Learn the correct techniques for helping your loved one move safely between bed, chair, and other surfaces.

    • Always bend at the knees not the waist
    • Use a gait belt for added safety and control
    • Move slowly and communicate each step clearly before doing it
    • Never rush a transfer - take your time
    • Ask for help if the transfer feels unsafe - two people is always better than one
    Learn More About Safe Transfers →
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    Safe Transportation for Your Loved One

    Getting your loved one to appointments and outings safely requires planning. Here are resources and tips for transporting elderly or mobility impaired loved ones safely.

    • Always confirm your loved one is fully secured before moving
    • Keep a list of medical information and emergency contacts in the car
    • Allow extra time - never rush
    • For wheelchair users confirm the vehicle is wheelchair accessible before booking
    • Consider medical transport services for longer distances or complex medical needs

    Non-Emergency Medical Transportation (NEMT) is often covered by Medi-Cal for eligible patients

    California NEMT Resources →
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    Understanding Long Term Care

    As your loved one's needs grow, in-home care may be one part of a larger care plan. Understanding your long term care options early helps your family make informed, confident decisions - without the pressure of a crisis.

    Learn More About Long Term Care Options →

    Keeping Your Loved One Safe at Home

    Small changes at home can make a big difference in your loved one's safety and comfort.

    Long Term Care - Know Your Options

    Planning ahead is one of the greatest gifts you can give your loved one and your family. Here is what you need to know about long term care options in California.

    Long term care refers to a range of services and support that help people with chronic conditions, disabilities, or the challenges of aging live as independently and safely as possible. It is not just about nursing homes - long term care includes many options that allow your loved one to remain at home or in a community setting for as long as possible. The key is understanding what is available so your family can plan ahead rather than react in a crisis.

    When to Call the Doctor

    Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong it probably is. Here are the symptoms that always warrant a call to your loved one's doctor or 911.

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    Contact the Doctor If You Notice:

    • Sudden confusion or unusual disorientation
    • Unexplained weight loss
    • Changes in appetite or swallowing difficulties
    • Increased falls or loss of balance
    • Urinary tract infection symptoms (confusion, burning, frequency)
    • Skin breakdown or pressure sores developing
    • Significant changes in mood or behavior
    • New or worsening pain
    • Medication side effects or reactions
    • Changes in sleep patterns
    • Withdrawal from activities they previously enjoyed
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    Call 911 Immediately For:

    • Chest pain or pressure
    • Difficulty breathing or shortness of breath
    • Signs of stroke - face drooping, arm weakness, speech difficulty (FAST: Face Arms Speech Time)
    • Loss of consciousness or unresponsiveness
    • Severe fall with head injury or inability to get up
    • Seizure
    • Sudden severe headache
    • Choking
    • Signs of poisoning or overdose
    • Any situation where you feel your loved one's life may be in danger

    When in doubt - call. It is always better to be safe.

    Taking Care of Yourself

    You cannot pour from an empty cup. Your wellbeing matters deeply - for you and for your loved one.

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    Recognizing Caregiver Burnout

    Family caregivers are at high risk of burnout. Common signs include exhaustion, resentment, social withdrawal, feeling hopeless, and neglecting your own health. Recognizing burnout early is the first step to getting support.

    Caregiver Burnout Resources →
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    It's Okay to Ask for Help

    Many family caregivers struggle to ask for help - often out of guilt, pride, or not wanting to burden others. But asking for help is one of the most important things you can do for yourself and your loved one. Here is how to start.

    • Make a specific list of tasks you need help with - people want to help but often don't know how
    • Accept offers of help even for small things
    • Consider a respite caregiver to give yourself regular breaks
    • Talk to your doctor about caregiver stress - it is a recognized health concern
    • Join a caregiver support group to connect with others who understand
    Find Respite Care Resources →
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    Mental Health Support for Family Caregivers

    Depression and anxiety are significantly more common in family caregivers. Free and low cost support is available.

    • Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
    • SAMHSA Helpline: 1-800-662-4357 (free 24/7)
    • Family Caregiver Alliance: 1-800-445-8106
    Family Caregiver Alliance →
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    Taking a Break - Respite Care

    Respite care provides temporary relief for family caregivers by bringing in a professional caregiver for hours, days, or weeks. It is not a luxury - it is a necessity for sustainable caregiving.

    Find Respite Care in California →

    Nourishing Recipes for Your Loved One

    Simple, nutritious recipes designed with older adults in mind - easy to prepare, easy to eat, and full of the nutrients your loved one needs.

    These recipes are suggestions only. Always follow any dietary restrictions, texture modifications, or nutritional guidance provided by your loved one's doctor or dietitian.

    Organizations That Can Help

    You don't have to figure this out alone. These organizations exist to support families just like yours.

    Family Caregiver Alliance| 1-800-445-8106

    Comprehensive resources, fact sheets, and support for family caregivers

    Alzheimer's Association| 1-800-272-3900

    24/7 helpline, local chapters, and free education programs

    California Department of Aging

    State resources including Area Agencies on Aging and local support services

    Adult Protective Services

    Report elder abuse or neglect and access protective services

    AARP Caregiver Resource Center

    Tools, tips, and community for family caregivers

    Eldercare Locator| 1-800-677-1116

    Find local services for older adults including transportation, meals, and home care